Just one quick question that’s been bugging me.why do people say ‘oh that’s so gay?’ And stuff when they call objects or gestures Gay? How are they gay? Are they identified as a gender like why do people say it?

My opinions align with Joh Green’s, so I recommend you watch this video. (Skip to 1:42 for gay being used as an insult.) To summarize of my opinion it’s a stupid insult that ultimately makes no sense if you think about it for more than 5 seconds.