Hot take: If you harass ex t*rfs who are trying to be better, then you’re actually harming efforts to point out that t*rfs are wrong. Harassing people, refusing to believe they’re genuine, and saying that nobody could ever actually get away from t*rfs isn’t going to make any current t*rfs who might be questioning their stance want to try to get away. It’s going to tell people that anti t*rfs are violent and exclusionary… things we’re trying to point out that t*rfs are.