Hey, I recently came out as pan and nb to my parents + mom's side of the family. Can you recommend some resources, preferably written by pan/ nb people, for me to show them? The ones that came up on a google search were unsatisfactory. (They already know the basic definitions)
here are a ton of nonbinary resources:
I use she/her pronouns, and they make me comfortable. But, if somebody uses they/them pronouns for me, it's also comfortable. Could I use both she and they?
of course! you can use whatever pronouns you want.
Repeat after me: I don’t know a strangers pronouns and if I misgender them it is ok to correct me. Ones comfort and identity security matters more than my opinions on the subject. It takes zero effort to be a decent and respectful person.
Repeat after me: I don't give a fuck about your pronouns I don't automatically know your made up pronouns when i see you I am not going out of my way to stop you and ask your pronouns when i don't know you.
repeat after me: you’re a fucking asshole that needs to fuck off.
from the replies:
Join the rest of the world buddy. You really think that we expect respect for our pronouns? From everyone? Without explaining ourselves? Without gadging if that person is safe to ask to use different pronouns? Are you kidding me? What rock have you shoved your head under? Way to be completely oblivious of how trans people actually live our lives. Also, it’s pretty funny that you think sending one generic reaction… is news to anyone. We’re aware. We don’t care.
Dear Dutch non-binary friends and followers,
There’s a chance you’ve heard it already, but in case you haven’t:
It is now in the law that discriminating someone based on their gender identity, gender expression and/or gender characteristics is illegal. It’s forbidden.
So next time someone doesn’t acknowledge your gender identity, they’re breaking the law.
The law was created a while back and passed the Tweede Kamer on July 3rd. It should pass the Eerste Kamer in no time.
CDA-member Van der Molen, talking about how vague and irrelevant the new law is: “How useful are the words genderneutral and intersex? […] You’d almost have to register who has a uterus when the [government] wants to hold a national screening for a research of cervical cancer.”
tbh i don’t think this is a bad idea.
*For a school story* What is an agender version of Mr/Mrs?
Mx. is a gender neutral alternative to mr/ms/mrs. it’s said like “mix”.
Hi! I was cleaning out my follow list of Maps ( or minor attracted persons/ pedophiles) and were wondering if you are/ support them?
no we do not support MAPS.
So, I’m 90% certain I’m some kind of flux identity, but most definitions of genderflux identities say something about “[gender] being a base identity”. How can you tell which is your base identity?
i think it would be whatever gender you id as most of the time. so if you id as female for example but feel female to different degrees throughout the day then you’re genderflux and female is your “base id”.
Hi-would you mind reblogging my last post? I’m trying to raise money for my boyfriend’s top surgery and I don’t have many followers. I would greatly appreciate it (:
i’m having trouble finding it. can you send another ask with a direct link or reblog it so that it’s it’s at the top of your blog?